I myself am conflicted in my ideology of ad "real man". The reason I say this is because the notion of a man has become so grossly fabricated that we imagine this big burly blonde-haired man with chest hair and large arm muscles that goes out hunting with nothing but a rifle and a Bowie knife.
I myself tend to look into history to find my optimal heroes. but, there is where my problem lies. Nearly 90% of all males in chronicled history were homosexual or bisexual. While they did marry women it was more for political stance or to further their genetics. In all of this mess of altered history, I can still see who was what why they did what they did. I've been growing to wonder if perhaps a "true man" should be looking towards other men for love and comfort.
Don't get me wrong, I do believe in God and Christ, and I know that God does not like male-male copulation, but even still I want to know the answer to this question. It's doubtable that I will ever live or exist long enough in this lifetime to understand mankind, so I leave my thoughts to rest here.